The conversation goes like this:
Me: You know I haven’t heard about whatever. I would have thought I would have by now.
Husband: Don’t get all crazy.
Me: I’m not!
Husband: I don’t know, I definitely detected a little bit of crazy in your voice . . .
And that folks, is what nearly nine years of marriage is about. Hearing the crazy in someone’s voice and not being afraid to call them on it. What it’s also about, is being called out on your crazy and being okay with it. Knowing that the other person loves you so much and knows you so well, that they are refusing to let you slip into an icky patch of self-doubt over whatever.
When you find this sort of love, I recommend you hang on to it.